CHECK IN
When a teammate sounds quieter than usual.
“Hey, you seem a little off today. How are you doing?”
Listen without pushing for an answer. Give your friend room to decide what to share.
Start the conversation. Offer prayer. Share what Jesus has done. Build a community where people know they matter.
These are starting points, not scripts to fire into a lobby. Speak in your own words, care about the person in front of you, and respect their answer.
Six ways to start. Choose an example, make it your own, and mean what you say.
When a teammate sounds quieter than usual.
“Hey, you seem a little off today. How are you doing?”
Listen without pushing for an answer. Give your friend room to decide what to share.
When someone tells you they are carrying something hard.
“I’m sorry you’re going through that. Would you like me to pray for you?”
If they say yes, ask what they would like prayer for. Keep the request private unless they give permission to share it.
When a conversation opens up about faith or hope.
“My faith in Jesus has changed my life. Would you be open to hearing my story?”
Tell the truth about your own experience, in your own words. Leave space for their response.
When someone wants to know what Christians believe.
“Would you like to hear what Christians believe about Jesus and why it matters to me?”
Speak clearly about Jesus. Listen to questions, respect a no, and follow the platform’s rules.
After someone has shared a need or accepted prayer.
“You mentioned a difficult week last time. How are things going? I’ve been praying for you.”
Only say you have prayed if you actually have. Do not share their situation with the group without permission.
When your group meets for prayer or Bible study.
“A few of us are getting together to pray and read the Bible after we play. You’re welcome to join us.”
Make it clear that joining is voluntary. Friendship and help should never depend on participation.
Examples are copied only when you choose. This tool does not store your conversations or send messages.
A good community needs more than a name and a Discord invite. Start with clear expectations and people who will show up for one another.
Explain your group’s purpose, age expectations, region, schedule, communication channels, and rules before people join.
Name trusted moderators, tell members how to report a problem privately, and respond consistently. Do not promise secrecy you cannot guarantee.
Ask before sharing prayer requests or personal stories. Be especially careful with minors and follow your platform’s safety rules.
Choose a sustainable time to play, check in with people, and follow through on what you offer. A small consistent group can be a strong one.
Check in with a teammate. Offer to pray. Make time for someone this week.